喜歡是一種境界放下是更高的境界作文

喜歡是一種境界，放下，是更高的境界

試着去喜歡陰雨的天氣，儘管心裏比較煩那打溼髮型的亞熱帶雨露氣候，然而，我仍然試着去喜歡它。

隨着年齡的成長，閱歷的加深，個人的感覺在生命之中變得越來越不重要，無論你喜歡，還是你討厭，無論你拒絕，還是接受，生命中的發生，都不會因爲你的喜好而有所改變。所以，試着去接受你不喜歡東西的存在、發生，也是一種成長。

人羣中，我是最孤獨的。

你選擇不了你的出身，選擇不了你的膚色，但是你可以改變你的心情，你的心態，你即改變不了這個世界，就改變你對世界的感知。生命，有時是自己對自己的選擇。

寧願在污澮世間，仍如一朵荷花，也不願再去想，污澮是多麼的污澮。寧可想，那是一種養料，也不願去想，這一堆的垃圾。寧可接受成佛的八八九十一難的苦難，也不願去想身在地獄。

有時候，我們不能改變地獄的事實，那麼，就把這事實當成天堂的塹腳石。有時候，我們可以站在苦難的背後，發現生命的真象。

The wholeness of life 健全的人生

Once a circle missed a wedge. The circle wanted to be whole, so it went around looking for its missing piece. But because it was incomplete and therefore could roll only very slowly, it admired the flowers along the way. It chatted with worms. It enjoyed the sunshine. It found lots of different pieces, but none of them fit. So it left them all by the side of the road and kept on searching. Then one day the circle found a piece that fit perfectly. It was so happy. Now it could be whole, with nothing missing. It incorporated the missing piece into itself and began to roll. Now that it was a perfect circle, it could roll very fast, too fast to notice flowers or talk to the worms. When it realized how different the world seemed when it rolled so quickly, it stopped, left its found piece by the side of the road and rolled slowly away.

The lesson of the story, I suggested, was that in some strange sense we are more whole when we are missing something. The man who has everything is in some ways a poor man. He will never know what it feels like to yearn, to hope, to nourish his soul with the dream of something better. He will never know the experience of having someone who loves him give him something he has always wanted or never had.

There is a wholeness about the person who has come to terms with his limitations, who has been brave enough to let go of his unrealistic dreams and not feel like a failure for doing so. There is a wholeness about the man or woman who has learned that he or she is strong enough to go through a tragedy and survive, she can lose someone and still feel like a complete person.

Life is not a trap set for us by God so that he can condemn us for failing. Life is not a spelling bee, where no matter how many words you’ve gotten right; you’re disqualified if you make one mistake. Life is more like a baseball season, where even the best team loses one third of its games and even the worst team has its days of brilliance. Our goal is to win more games than we lose.

When we accept that imperfection is part of being human, and when we can continue rolling through life and appreciate it, we will have achieved a wholeness that others can only aspire to. That, I believe, is what God asks of us—not “Be perfect”, not “Don’t even make a mistake”, but “Be whole.”

If we are brave enough to love, strong enough to forgive, generous enough to rejoice in another’s happiness, and wise enough to know there is enough l

ove to go around for us all, then we can achieve a fulfillment that no other living creature will ever know.